'Amr bin Al-Ahwas Al-Jushami (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that he had heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying on his Farewell Pilgrimage, after praising and glorifying Allah and admonishing people, "Treat women kindly, they are like captives in your hands; you do not owe anything else from them. In case they are guilty of open indecency, then do not share their beds and beat them lightly but if they return to obedience, do not have recourse to anything else against them. You have rights over your wives and they have their rights over you. Your right is that they shall not permit anyone you dislike to enter your home, and their right is that you should treat them well in the matter of food and clothing".
[At- Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith Hasan Sahih].
- Hadith Riyad as-Salihin 276 (islam)
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Quran Al-Ahzab(The Confederates) 33:33 (en en2 tfs tfs2) Submission and role (22) Abide in your houses and do not display yourselves as the display of the former times of ignorance And abide in your houses and do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of ignorance. And establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah intends only to remove from you the impurity [of sin], O people of the [Prophet's] household, and to purify you with [extensive] purification. - Quran Al-Ahzab(The Confederates) 33:33 (islam) The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart. - Hadith Muslim 1403a (islam)
Book 16, Hadith 10
Book 8, Hadith 3240 Hadith Tirmidhi 1158 (en en2) “The Prophet saw a woman, then he went to Zainab to fulfill his need and he left. He said: ‘Indeed when the woman enters, she enters in the image of Shaitan. So when one of you sees a woman that he is fascinated with, then let him go to his wife, for indeed with her (his wife) is the same as that which is with her.” - Hadith Tirmidhi 1158 (islam)
Book 12, Hadith 13
Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 1158 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. - Bible Genesis 3:16 (bible torah) But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. - Bible 1 Corinthians 11:3 (bible) [12]But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
[13]For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
[14]And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
[15]Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. - Bible 1 Timothy 2:12-15 (bible) Bible 1 Timothy 2:9-11 (en) Submission and role (22) I want the women to dress modestly and learn in quietness and full submission [9]In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
[10]But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
[11]Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. - Bible 1 Timothy 2:9-11 (bible) I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (ﷺ), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me , if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.
- Hadith Abu Dawud 2140 (islam)
Book 12, Hadith 95
Book 11, Hadith 2135 The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "After me I have not left any trial more severe to men than women." - Hadith Al Bukhari 5096 (islam)
Book 67, Hadith 34
Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 33 Hadith Muslim 2740 (en en2) I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more injurious to men than the harm done to the men because of women. - Hadith Muslim 2740 (islam)
Book 49, Hadith 9
Book 36, Hadith 6603 As for a woman, if she needs to marry, it is recommended for her to do so, though if she does not, (0; not feeling any sexual desire within herself, and she is engaged in worship,) then it is offensive for her to do so. (N: Though such a woman needs a husband or unmarriageable relative to travel and so forth (dis: m10.3).)
DESIRABLE CHARACfERISTICS IN A BRIDE mlA It is recommended for a man to marry a virgin (0: unless there is a reason not to, such as sexual incapacity or needing someone to take care of his children) (A: though it is permissible to marry a nonvirgin even if she has not previously married (dis: p12.1(3(n:)))) who is fertile (0:
which in a virgin is inferable from her relatives), attractive, intelligent, religious, of a good family, and not a close relative. (0: In Sharh al-Minhaj, Ibn Hajar notes that when one must choose between the above characteristics, the order of preference should be:
(1) religiousness, which takes precedence over anything else;
(2) intelligence;
(3) a good character and disposition;
(4) fertility;
(5) a good family;
(6) virginity;
(7) beauty;
(8) and then that which fulfills some other relevant interest.)
* - Fiqh Umdat m1.3 (islam) | 
